Category Archives: family
haiku: Christmas past dreams
haiku: Christmas past dreams
remembering past
family Christmases on
the farm of her youth
Herb Stone
here&now working poetry
December 20, 2022
photo by author
author’s note: Cathey grew up

haiku: flickering memories
haiku: flickering memories
Totties’ white crochet
in Fall’s dancing light adorns
the royal blue chair
Herb Stone
here&now working poetry
October 31, 2022
photo by author
author’s note: remembering my maternal grandmother, Aline Feustel Martin (1889-1979), who we grandchildren called Tottie all her life.
serial poem: the caregiver and the beloved “3:00 A.M. humor at the porta-potty”
serial poem: the caregiver and the beloved
“3:00 A.M. humor at the porta-potty”
her hair stabbing wildly
this way and that
brushing it out of her eyes
and softly smoothing it
around her face
very seriously she asks,
in a bright, clear voice,
“do you like my hairdo?”
to which I answer, “well Yes,
I have always liked a French buffont”
silly laughter ensues,
she has always loved my jokes
Herb Stone
here&now working poetry
July 20, 2022
photo of my beloved circa 1963

serial poem: the caregiver and the beloved ‘keeping safe’
serial poem: the caregiver and the beloved
‘keeping safe’
there are dangerous places
in a home where the risk are high:
the bathtub, poorly lit spaces,
slippery floors, and the
dreaded stairs
listening for her to roll over
or feet hitting the floor,
ever alert, I write downstairs
in the early morning
before she rises
suddenly appearing before me,
without a sound, as if teleported
down the stairs, her visage startles me:
no cane, no glasses, no shoes,
jumping up to make sure she is whole
Herb Stone
here&now working poetry
June 25, 2022
Photo by author
‘Checking on My Beloved’
for our beloved Cat, daughter, sister,
wife, mom, grandmom, sister-in-law,
aunt, dear friend to so many

haiku: and heaven is in your mind
asleep on the porch
bumble bees in nandinas
cool breeze rustling leaves
Herb Stone
here&now working poetry
June 6, 2022
photos by author
haiku: broken ankles and dreams
haiku: broken ankles and dreams
toe nails painted pink
a pedicure on her feet
she dreams of dancing
Herb Stone
here&now working poetry
May 14, 2022
photos by author
Author’s note: The physical therapist
working with Cathey is the best. Very
professional, highly skilled, and a
great motivator, with excellent rapport
with the patient. We are so grateful for
his presence. Oh, and yes, I did the
pedicure and nail polish.




haiku: being home
she picks the blooms
she puts in the vase today
lovely being home
Herb Stone
here&now working poetry
May 6, 2022
photo by author
quote: Friend, this world breaks us all
poem: where is everyone?
poem: where is everyone?
the ninth of ten siblings,
high school cheerleader,
dancer in the band,
friend to all she knew,
aunt, wife, mother, grandmother
her dreams and memories
are filled with people
which she often
vividly remembers today
feeling their close presence
she will often ask:
where are the young ‘uns,
is everybody upstairs,
didn’t so and so spent the night,
isn’t there thirty in our group
beloved, just us two
old folks living alone;
others out on their own,
some living alone, others passing on,
where is everyone indeed
Herb Stone
here&now working poetry
February 18, 2022
photos: 1) the cheerleader
2) one of ten siblings front
row center (only nine are pictured)
3) Grandmomma
Author’s note: The elderly in our
society face multiple challenges
when it comes to remaining socially
engaged as we age. Perhaps first is
that our culture idolizes its’ youth and
encourages maintaining one’s youthful
attitude as long as possible into old age.
This negates the value elders may bring
to our culture such as seeing the world with
spiritual maturity and offering their wisdom
from long experience. Additionally, for many
as they age, there are factors leading to
increasing loneliness and social isolation.
Some of those factors include cognitive
conditions such as dementia and Alzheimers,
other worsening health conditions of
aging, living arrangements, and lack of
transportation, among other factors. We must
do better at forming inclusive, intergenerational
societies that value and bring dignity
to all regardless of age.


